Why it is better to be Tarzan than Rambo

As I approach my final year in my 40s, I took a mini-sabbatical this week – my first overseas solo vacation to recharge and reflect on my first half of 2024.

During my time alone, I reflected on the 10 most important insights I have gained that have shaped my journey since starting a new path last year.

It also reminded me of the many wonderful individuals I have met on this path for whom I am thankful.

I want to share my reflection with you as a reminder of what you can find when you seek with an open mind.

๐Ÿ.๐†๐ž๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ง ๐š ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ญ.
โ†ณMeasure perfection by what it costs instead of what it offers.

๐Ÿ. ๐˜๐Ž๐” ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐š๐œ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐˜๐Ž๐”.
โ†ณBe the best friend with that person in the mirror.

๐Ÿ‘. ๐’๐ฎ๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ž๐ฌ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ข๐›๐ฅ๐ž.
โ†ณCelebrate your new beliefs, confidence, knowledge and connections!

๐Ÿ’. ๐“๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ, ๐œ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐œ๐ข๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฃ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง๐ž๐ฒ.
โ†ณFocus on what you can control and celebrate growth even when results donโ€™t measure up to your efforts (yet).

๐Ÿ“. ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐š ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐ž.
โ†ณBut there is a time for everything. Give yourself and the situation space.

๐Ÿ”. ๐†๐จ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ โ€“ ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง = ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ
โ†ณThe only way forward is by taking action, not by thinking.

๐Ÿ•. ๐ƒ๐จ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐š๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐›๐ž ๐š ๐ญ๐จ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ.
โ†ณWhat happens tomorrow doesnโ€™t matter today. Start today.

๐Ÿ–. ๐Š๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฏ๐š๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ž.
โ†ณIf you donโ€™t trust YOU, no one else will.

๐Ÿ—. ๐๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ž ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ .
โ†ณAccept sometimes the best solution doesnโ€™t involve you.

๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ. ๐๐ž ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐“๐š๐ซ๐ณ๐š๐ง, ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐‘๐š๐ฆ๐›๐จ.
โ†ณYou can never win alone. Build your tribe and remember those who showed up for you.

Do you relate to any of these reflections?
Share in comment how it has helped your progress in 2024.
I’d love to hear about your journey. ๐ŸŒŸ

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