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What a 56 YO skydiver taught me about taking the leap

I enjoy making new connections during webinars.Last week, I met June, a Singaporean who migrated to Australia, in a webinar breakout session.Her new life in Perth has been nothing short of an adventure.At age 56, she lived to tell the tales of her 2 ‘impossible’ from…

The Power of Once

It has been said the first time is the most memorable.But what if it can also be the most disruptive?Years ago, my former CEO shared a simple yet profound principle:“When we allow ‘just this once,’ we open the door to excuses.”“A small compromise will lead to a habit…

Are you truly READY for the opportunities you’ve been waiting for?

One of the best advices I received was when I started as a Call Centre agent. Back then, my manager said, “Don’t ask for opportunities. Instead, ask,‘Am I ready when those opportunities arise?’Because if you’re not, opportunities won’t matter. They’ll pass you by.”…

Just Do It – Don’t Always work

Do you know …Nike’s “Just Do It” slogan was inspired by the final words of Gary Gilmore, a convicted murderer who was executed in Utah in 1977.Dan Wieden, co-founder of the advertising firm that created the slogan,was inspired by Gilmore’s…

You could be denying yourself. Here’s why

After more than 100 coaching conversations, I came to realise we are our biggest barriers.We are often our harshest critics, putting ourselves down before anybody else.When I asked my coachees,“What’s really standing in your way and the results you want?”I often hear,…

An important advice from wasting 6 years of my career

I began my career in the Mobile Telecommunications (Telco) sector in the year 2000.That was an era when Telco was the unicorn much like the AI industry is today.As a fresh Marketing graduate, I felt I ‘arrived’ when I landed my first job with MobileOne…

Do you know your TRUE potential?

Do you know your TRUE potential?

I started my career as a Customer Service officer (CSO) in a call centre.My job involved a single task. That was to retain (‘winback’) at least 7 subscribers per day who called to cancel their service subscription with MobileOne (M1).That single task proved…

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Giving up is a life skill. Here’s what I found out …

Giving up is a life skill. Here’s what I found out …

I have given up several times in life.During my corporate career, I gave up on job promotion twice to pursue new roles outside of my domain.I was motivated by the curiosity of stepping out of my comfort zone.Back then, I didn’t anticipate each decision would set me…

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How do we know what we 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘭𝘺 want? 

How do we know what we 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘭𝘺 want? 

Since I was a child, I have been fascinated with living overseas.When the opportunity for an assignment in Indonesia came up in 2013, I grabbed it!The excitement of my first overseas posting was soon met with a sense of reality.Reality struck as I transitioned from a…

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What if there is a perfectionist in each of us? 

What if there is a perfectionist in each of us? 

Psychologist Thomas Curran explained perfectionism is not the quest of perfecting a task.It is an act of covering up the ‘perceived imperfection’ in ourselves.I have never regarded myself as a perfectionist.It came as a surprise when perfectionism emerged as my chief…

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Can you change your mindset completely?

Can you change your mindset completely?

Most of us recognize the transformative power of having a growth mindset.Does having a growth mindset stop us from going down the slippery slope of a fixed mindset again?😬Last Thursday, I had an interesting conversation with an ex-classmate over dinner.When I updated…

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Our self-doubts have a purpose, you decide what it means

Our self-doubts have a purpose, you decide what it means

Last November was the mid-term of my 6 months Professional Coaching Certification program.It was a special milestone that I looked forward to. A timely opportunity to measure my development and competency as a coach.The 2-day mid-term workshop was packed with practice…

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